Many people judge and hate on others because they are jealous that they do not have the guts to do the things these people do or have done. Condoms break, dental dams rip, wear and tear or old condoms improperly stored etc. Safe sex, does not mean you will not get HIV.
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Instead of demonizing sex and labeling it we need to teach person responsibility and how to minimize our risks. Why? Is it becuase they just want to have wild sex parties with multiple partners? I think not! the root of the matter is we are just all tired of being afraid of something so natural and beautiful as sex. I know of many people who seek out HIV of their own accord. We as a community should come together when another human being has succumbed to this terrible disease not judge and humiliate the dead. There are many porn stars with all types of issues just as there are many people in the outside world with varying types of issues. Especially when almost all of you support the porn industry by buying videos, downloading from the net or what have you. It is disgusting to hear the way many of you have talked about another human being. I may not have agreed with Josh’s choice of doing bareback videos but the choice was his to make and I surely have done enough things in my life to never condemn the actions of another. Bareback sex is not the problem irresponsible people are. The key is being honest with each other over our status’ and being able to stay faithful together or within the agreed group. Getting tested together with a sexual partner, sharing your results and staying monogamous or polygamous within those tested together is one way. You can be responsible and still engage in unprotected sex. I hate the term bareback sex and even more so hate the way it is used to demonize what I consider natural sex. Just because we make fewer bad choices or differing ones does not mean we are better people. Some of us just make more of those choices than others. We all make choices in our lives that can be dangerous to our well being. Have they always used a dental damn when rimming? Probably not. I seriously doubt all of the people who sit in judgement of Josh have always used condoms during both anal and oral. Especially when most, if not all of these people are being hypocritical. What saddens me more is how vicious the gay community can be over anthers choices. Josh (Chad) was always a very sweet, good natured guy, that I had the privilege of knowing and sharing several production sets with. I am very saddened to hear of this tragedy. Seriously, you need to start acting your ages, grow the fuck up, and be the fucking examples that the gay community likes to lie about. I doubt most of you are close to me in age. But I’ve lost all of my faith in humanity and truly believe that we’ll be like this for decades because we all we do is act like a bunch of bitching housewives. We’re almost as bad as a desperate single mother who will ignore her daughter she claims that mommy’s new man just raped her. and yes there have been a lot of cry-wolf situations or people screaming racist when the person they want isn’t interested, but by simply dismissing it all together, especially with my favorite “it’s 2012….” bullshit, we perpetuate the ever lingering problem. the problem that perpetuates them is that when someone is called out on it, or if someone points out something that may appear a bit discriminatory, everyone else will lash out at them like they’re being over-dramatic and just keep pretending it doesn’t exist. so how do you think I feel when I hear people talking about the gay community? And Some more of the worst aspects of the straight community that we’ve adopted but NO ONE wants to admit to are the racism, sexism, and “ideal person”. I’m also black and when I hear about how horribly portrayed we are, it’s upsetting but I just need to look outside of my window and see that unfortunately, they’re right. but we get mad and cry homophobia against straight people for saying the same things about us. I actually read all of these comments and then several others on queerty, not to mention hear about the bullshit around town. we can only stay united against a common enemy for so long but once that’s over, it’s back to being cliques and fucking another “conquest” and pretending they don’t exist.
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we claim to care when one of us is killed or beaten or whatever, but the truth is, we could give two fucks about them. forget you.” We’ve abandoned our lgbt youth and barely associate with our brethren of the world. quickly we have adopted the demeanor as the majority of the U.S. but there is ABSOLUTELY NO LOVE in this community. we will NEVER look at each other the way we claim to look at each other to the straights. We will NEVER come together as a community.